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Time to Use or Exchange Your Old Non-Barcoded Postage Stamps!

Time to Use or Exchange Your Old Non-Barcoded Postage Stamps!

A quickie today to remind you that you have just 10 days left to use or exchange any remaining non-barcoded stamps you may have. The stamps concerned are the plain ones with the late Queen’s head on (all stamps with the new King’s head are barcoded).

Christmas stamps and other ‘special’ stamps with pictures on will continue to be valid for the foreseeable future, but it would still be a good idea to use them up now (or give them to a collector in the family!).

If you can’t use the stamps before the end of July, you can exchange them free of charge using Royal Mail’s Swap Out scheme. You will need to complete a Stamp Swap Out form for stamps worth up to £200, or a Bulk Stamp Swap Out form for stamps worth more than £200. Forms are available from post offices, though note that you cannot exchange the stamps themselves there.

An image from the Royal Mail website showing which stamps can and can’t be swapped is shown below.

Swap Out stamps

The deadline for using plain non-barcoded stamps is 31 July 2023. If you use them after that date, the recipient will have to pay a fee (to be announced) on delivery. That’s assuming they are delivered at all, of course.

As well as post offices, you can print Swap Out forms from the Royal Mail website, or phone their customer services on 03457 740740 to request one. There is currently no deadline for the Swap Out scheme and it will continue after 31 July 2023, though again it may be best to do this sooner rather than later.

For more information on the Swap Out scheme – and barcoded stamps more generally – see Royal Mail’s Barcoded Stamps info page.

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My Short Break in Bath

My Short Break in Bath

I recently returned from a three-day break in the historic city of Bath. It was the first time in over 30 years I’d been to Bath, so it’s fair to say I was approaching it with fresh eyes!

I stayed in a one-bedroom self-catering apartment in a large multi-occupied property called Elmbrook. This was about twenty minutes’ walk from the centre of Bath. I arranged it through Booking.com. I’ll say a bit more about the apartment below.

For those who don’t know, Bath is on the River Avon, about 12 miles from Bristol. Here is a map of the area from Google Maps…

Accommodation

As mentioned, I stayed in a self-catering apartment in a property called Elmbrook. This was on the Weston Road, a short but pleasant walk from the centre of Bath via the Royal Victoria Park and botanical gardens.

You can read more about where I stayed on this page of the Booking.com website (and see photos). One big attraction for me was that a reserved (and free) off-road parking space was available. In Bath – as in many popular tourist areas – finding somewhere to park can be tricky.

The apartment had a good-sized master bedroom with a comfortable double bed. It had a small but perfectly adequate bathroom with a modern power shower (though, somewhat ironically, no bath). The shower worked well and there was plenty of hot water.

The lounge was quite spacious. It was at the front of the house and had a small patio leading from it. Although I didn’t use the patio during my stay, the patio door provided a quick and convenient method for getting my luggage from and to the car! The lounge had a good-quality flat-screen TV and a DVD player with a small selection of DVDs.

The kitchen was at the back of the apartment and had all the facilities you would need or expect, including a modern electric oven and hob, microwave, toaster, fridge, sink, dishwasher, washing machine, and so forth.

The apartment had central heating on a thermostat, though as it was June I didn’t need this. It had free wifi which worked perfectly during my stay (not always the case in my experience). The location was quiet and peaceful, and I slept very well.

Finally I should say that communication from my Booking.com hosts (Nigel and Alison) was excellent. Nigel sent me detailed instructions about how to get there and how to get in (I used the key safe, though he offered to meet me in person if I preferred). They also left me a welcome letter and a basket of goodies, including a bottle of wine, muesli, milk, ground coffee, and so on. That was a kind gesture and obviously much appreciated.

Financials

As Pounds and Sense is primarily a money blog, I should say a few words about this.

I paid a total of £351 (including VAT) for my three-night visit, which works out to £117 a day. I thought that was very reasonable bearing in mind the high standard of the accommodation and the convenience of the location.

Obviously as it was self-catering no meals were included and neither was there a daily housekeeping visit. But on the plus side, I got a lot more space and facilities than I would have had at a hotel, and complete privacy throughout my stay. I’d have to admit that these days I prefer to go self-catering when possible, even if I do miss hotel breakfasts a bit!

Things to Do

I won’t give you a blow-by-blow account of everything I did on my visit. I will share some highlights and personal recommendations, though.

The first thing I did was book a ticket on the Hop On, Hop Off open-top sightseeing buses. My ticket cost me just under £20 after my over-60s discount and a small reduction for booking online. The most you will pay is £22.50, though.

A ticket allows you unlimited travel on two routes, the City Tour and the Skyline Tour. As you would expect, the City Tour takes you round all the main attractions in or near the centre, including the Royal Crescent, The Circus, Bath Abbey, the Roman Baths, Theatre Royal, and so on. You can listen to a commentary that tells you some interesting facts about Bath and its history. Earphones are provided for no extra charge, and you can choose from ten different languages (including English, naturally!). I found this a great way of getting my bearings.

The Skyline Tour takes you further afield, through some of the beautiful countryside surrounding Bath. It affords some wonderful views over the city, and you get to see a range of other interesting locations, including the university, the American museum and two National Trust parks and gardens. Again, an informative commentary is available. On both tours you can get on or off at any of the stops along the route. It’s worth noting that tickets are nominally valid for 24 hours, but I was told you can use them any time over a two-day period, which potentially makes them even better value. I definitely recommend doing this.

One ‘must see’ attraction in Bath is, of course, the stunning Roman Baths that gave the city its name (see cover photo). They aren’t especially cheap to visit (I paid the discounted price of £25 plus £5 for a guidebook), but are definitely worth it. Collect a free handset as you go in. You can then key in the code numbers displayed around the buildings to hear a commentary about what is on view in any particular area. There is loads to see, so I recommend allowing a couple of hours here at least.

Another top tip for visiting the Baths is to pre-book your ticket. I made the mistake of assuming I could just pay the admission fee and walk in, but that’s not generally the case. To manage numbers, visitors have to book a timed slot. I arrived at about midday but the earliest slot available then was 3.15. So I had to book using my mobile phone and come back later. It wasn’t a problem as there were plenty of other things I wanted to see and do – but if I was going again I’d definitely book my preferred day and time well in advance. Similar advice applies to other popular attractions in Bath, including the Jane Austen Centre and the No. 1 Royal Crescent Museum, incidentally.

Another place I especially enjoyed visiting was Bath Abbey. This church and one-time Benedictine monastery in the centre of Bath goes back to the 7th century, though it has been rebuilt several times since then. It is a fine example of Gothic Perpendicular architecture and particularly noted for its beautiful fan vaulting (see my photo below). There is an admission fee but it is relatively modest at about £6.50 (no over-60s discount, I’m afraid!).

bath abbey fan vaulting

I visited the Abbey with my old friend Jeff, who lives quite near Bath. We were lucky in that when we arrived a free tour of the Abbey was just about to begin, led by a knowledgeable voiunteer guide. We found this interesting and informative, especially when he explained about the Abbey’s new underfloor heating system, which is powered by heat from the spa water!

There are some lovely – though not especially old – stained glass windows in the Abbey, as the photo below shows. There are also some informative displays and exhibitions, along with a gift shop and (free) toilets.

bath abbey stained glass window

Here are a few more quick hints and tips for visitors to Bath, based on my experience…

  • You can download an excellent free map of Bath from this website. I printed this out and found it invaluable for finding my way around.
  • Be sure to take a few 20p coins with you. Quite a few public conveniences require these 😮
  • Keep a close eye on your speed if driving around (or towards) Bath. Many of the roads have a low 20 mph limit.
  • There is also a low emission zone in Bath, though currently charges don’t apply to most private cars and motorbikes.
  • You can’t actually swim in the Roman Baths, as this is set up as a tourist attraction. There are, though, a few places you can swim in spa water, most notably the Thermae Bath Spa. Be aware this costs a minimum of £40 for a two-hour session.
  • As mentioned above, I highly recommend pre-booking visits to popular attractions. Not only will this guarantee admission at your preferred time, it may work out a bit cheaper as well.
  • But don’t miss out, either, on admiring the stunning Georgian architecture of Bath, including the famous Royal Crescent and arguably even more impressive Circus. This is something you can do for free 🙂
  • Something I didn’t do on this visit but would quite like to in future is a boat trip on the River Avon. There are various options here, including this one which combines a boat trip with a short walking tour.

Closing Thoughts

As you may gather, I enjoyed my short break in Bath, and am happy to recommend both the city and the accommodation where I stayed for a short break.

Bath is quite compact but there is plenty to see and do. As well as the historical sites, there are lots of charming cafes and coffee shops, and some highly regarded pubs and restaurants. But it can also be a great place to chill out, with lovely green spaces such as the Royal Victoria Park and adjacent botanical gardens (both free to visit). I shall definitely be returning again before too long!

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Managing Time and Money in Retirement

Guest Post: How to Manage Your Time and Money in Retirement

Today I have a guest post that may be of interest to many readers of this blog.

It has recently been reported that nearly 100,000 retirees have returned to work due to the cost of living crisis and the realization that they need more money to live in reasonable comfort.

To help those in or nearing retirement, my friends at Equity Release Supermarket have set out some of their top tips for older people on how best to manage their finances, time, and boundaries with loved ones, to support their overall mental and physical well-being.


 

Many consider retirement to be the first time in their adult lives that they can relax and prioritize doing what they enjoy most.

This new-found freedom can be overwhelming, however, and establishing a new routine can take time. What’s more, as the cost of living crisis continues, those in and approaching retirement likely need to pay closer attention to their personal finances and outgoings.

Mark Gregory, Founder and CEO at Equity Release Supermarket, explains: “We speak to hundreds of over 55s each week and, for many people, the prospect of spending more time with loved ones and being able to offer support to their family is what they look forward to most. We also see how people want to use retirement as an opportunity to pursue budding interests or fulfil personal goals.

As a result, it is important that those in and approaching this stage of their life manage both their time and money, helping to get the most from their retirement plan and budget.

To help, the experts at Equity Release Supermarket have shared steps for retirees to keep on top of their time and finances to ultimately support their well-being and achieve their retirement goals.

Set goals by creating a retirement plan

Whether retirement is a few years away or you’ve already stopped working, we recommend making a retirement plan.

Start by thinking about your long term goals, such as places you want to travel to or whether you’d be interested in learning a new skill in the future. Then, consider what day-to-day activities you enjoy doing, such as spending time with grandchildren or visiting friends, as well as tasks you want to tick off your to-do list. This could include anything from giving your garden a makeover to clearing out old items from the loft.

Mapping out your days, weeks, and even years with goals and activities that will bring you fulfilment will help you organize your priorities for retirement. You could write these goals down in a notepad or even create a vision board.

Regardless of your process, make sure your retirement plan is something you can physically refer to in the future, rather than just having all the ideas up in your head.

Check in with your budget

When it comes to planning your yearly budget, you will need to establish how much money you require for your outgoings and living costs, as well as any big expenses you have planned for retirement. This could be anything from a bucket-list travel destination to supporting a son or daughter in buying their first home.

If possible, you should also aim to create an emergency savings pot, to use for any unexpected expenses.

However, it is important to remember that just because you have set your budget, those figures are not set in stone.

There are many factors that can affect your outgoings, from the ongoing cost of living crisis to personal changes such as marriage, divorce, moving house/downsizing or serious illness. Be flexible with your budget and priorities to accommodate these changes and the impact they may have on your personal finances. You might find that you need to seek out other financial options or guidance to support both your retirement and your loved ones.

It’s also important to continually check whether the money you’ve set aside for big expenses is working for you and your well-being. You might realize that you want to spend more money on things you hadn’t planned for, such as renovating the house or going on a once-in-a-lifetime holiday – in which case, you will need to update your financial plan accordingly.

Communicate with loved ones

Although creating a clear plan for retirement is essential, you also need to be mindful that life does not follow a set path.

From your physical health and mobility to ticking off your travel plans, your goals and potential limitations in retirement will adjust over time – and that’s fine and to be expected.

As difficult as it may be to admit, it can become a burden to spend your free time exactly as planned or support loved ones as much as you hoped. In these instances, it is important to keep communicating with your loved ones and be honest with them, so they can offer you support too. This will help to alleviate any pressure you may be feeling and allow your family and friends to be more accommodating of your situation.

Take care of your physical and mental well-being

It is important to make time in retirement for activities that will aid your well-being, especially as loneliness and depression are increasingly prevalent in later life.

Without the daily company of colleagues, you need to ensure you still get chances to socialize and see friends. Whether it’s arranging a coffee catch-up or joining a new local club, there are plenty of ways to incorporate social activities into the week without spending too much money, seeing both old friends and making new ones.

You can also take up activities that will benefit your physical and mental health at the same time, such as walking or low-impact exercises such as Pilates or yoga.

Think about the future

Although retirement may have been the end goal for your working life, it doesn’t mean you should stop planning for the future.

For example, you can make financial decisions that will save time and money in the long run. This could include minimizing your monthly outgoings to pay off existing mortgages quicker, as well as potentially providing you and your loved ones with more freedom later down the line.

If you’re planning to leave an inheritance to your children or family members, it is also worth considering gifting this money instead. Money gifted through equity release [or otherwise] becomes exempt from inheritance tax, provided that the giver lives for seven years afterwards. This can be a useful strategy for those who want to offer more financial support to loved ones throughout retirement and see the positive impact of this themselves.

So there you have it, five tips for getting the most from retirement. For more information about finances in retirement, visit the Equity Release Supermarket website.


My thoughts

Thanks again to my friends at Equity Release Supermarket for a useful and thought-provoking article.

I do agree it’s important to cultivate a strong social network in retirement, both with existing friends and family and with new friends and connections.

Time and again, studies have found that older people are both mentally and physically healthier when they foster relationships with others and maintain strong social connections. By contrast, social isolation and loneliness in old age have been linked to higher risks of heart disease, obesity, depression, cognitive decline, and so on.

Staying connected is especially important if (like me) you live alone. Social groups such as U3A are inexpensive to join and offer a wide range of activities, from rambling to guitar-playing, bird-watching to music appreciation. It’s well worth checking if there is a U3A group in your area. I recently joined not one but two local U3A groups and plan to write a post about this soon.

it’s also important to pay careful attention to your finances in retirement. On the one hand, you need to watch your income and expenditure to ensure you don’t run out of money in old age. On the other hand, though, you don’t want to deprive yourself without good reason and end up leading an unnecessarily frugal existence in what should be your ‘golden years’.

If you’re unsure about your finances, it can be a good idea to have a chat with a professional financial adviser. You definitely don’t need to be super-wealthy for this. Take a look at my blog post 10 Reasons Over-50s May Need an Independent Financial Adviser for more information. Most advisers (including mine) will be happy to arrange an initial meeting free of charge and without obligation.

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UK Bloggers Fathers Day Giveaway

UK Bloggers Father’s Day Giveaway!

Summer is here, so it’s time for another exciting giveaway on Pounds and Sense. This one is themed around Father’s Day, which this year is on Sunday June 18th.

I have clubbed together with some of my fellow UK bloggers to provide a bunch of great prizes guaranteed to put a grin on any dad’s face. And the best news is, it’s entirely free to enter! The giveaway is open now and will close at 11.45 pm on Sunday June 18th.

This event has (again) been organized by Rowena Becker, who blogs at My Balancing Act. No small amount of effort has been involved in arranging and co-ordinating it, so many thanks again to Rowena for her hard work and dedication.

Without further ado, then, I’ll hand you over to Rowena to introduce the giveaway…

Father’s Day Giveaway

And we’re back! This time to spoil your dad. We have a number of incredible prizes that will make his day! This is not only a giveaway but a gift guide to help you get ideas and inspiration for gifts for your dad (or other special man in your life) this Father’s Day. And for more ideas and inspirations check out these blog posts, The Ultimate Father’s Day Gift Guide and Frugal Father’s Day.

The Prizes

Treat Him Experience Box from Buyagift

Give your dad a fun and unique gift with the Treat Him Experience Box from Buyagift!

Buyagift has hand-picked the finest selection of Tasty Treat, Driving Blast and Adrenaline Adventure experiences to create the perfect gift for any man. From zorbing to supercar driving, gourmet dining to overnight stays, our lucky winner can treat their dad to a wonderful experience he will never forget!

Image One - Treat Experience

Hoover Cordless Vacuum Cleaner with ANTI-TWIST™ (Single Battery)

Make your dad’s life easier with this incredible prize! Not only will the Hoover Cordless Vacuum Cleaner with an anti-twist and single battery, make cleaning time quicker and easier, but it’s also a practical and useful present. With a Hoover, your dad can easily keep his home clean and tidy, without much effort. It’s a thoughtful way to make his daily routine easier and hassle-free. Plus, who doesn’t love a clean and fresh home? Our lucky winner can surprise their Dad with a Hoover, and watch him become the happiest dad with the cleanest house around!

Features:

    • NEW ANTI-TWIST™ floorhead
    • Up to 45 Minutes of Power
    • Space-saving design and stands unaided for easy storage
    • Converts instantly to a handheld with 2-in-1 dusting/upholstery tool
    • Lightweight and easy to use
    • Exclusive 3-year warranty with this product. Only available at Hoover Direct website, hooverdirect.co.uk

Hoover

Opinel Complete Picnic+ Set

The Opinel Picnic+ set is the ideal gift for busy dads who need to eat their meals on the go.

The set comes with:

    • A No. 08 knife
    • Two inserts (a fork and a spoon) that attach to the No. 08 knife
    • A microfibre towel case that is both a storage and cleaning device

The inserts are made of stainless steel, so they are nice and sturdy and hygienic (compatible with wooden handled N°08 knives, equipped with the Virobloc safety ring marketed since 2000). We have one picnic set for our lucky winner!

Picnic set

Silk Route Spice Company Grinders

This gift set is undoubtedly the perfect present for your resident chef or culinary friend, especially if they love French food as much as we do. The grinders contain carefully balanced mixtures of herbs and spices hand-selected by specialist chefs to impart a taste of France to any dish of your choosing, be it your homemade soupe a l’oignon or boeuf bourguignon.

The four mixes are: Herbs de Provence, Mustard & Garlic mix, Fine Herb Seasoning and French Quatre mix. Available from Amazon and donated by Dordogne Vie.

Disclaimer: As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases

French spice gift set

The Bloggers

In order to bring you this incredible giveaway, some of the UK’s top bloggers got together and contributed. A massive thank you to our bloggers! Those taking part are:

Working Mum Life | Boxnip | Pounds and Sense | Jenny in Neverland | We Made This Life | My Life Your Way | We Made This Vegan | Hannah and the Twiglets | My Money Cottage | Retro Vixen | Doodle Pooch | Clean Plates All Round | Wotawoman Diary | Catch Up With Claire | Synderella Slims | Lisa’s Notebook | Twins Tantrums and Cold Coffee | Evans-Crittens | Verily Victoria Vocalises | Joanna Victoria | Cats Kids and Chaos | Crazy Little Thing Called Love | Mum Diaries | Best things to do in Cambridge | Two Plus Dogs | Everything Enchanting | At Home With Alice | Life with Jupiter and Dann | Best Lodges With Hot Tubs | A Suffolk Mum | Sustainable Business Magazine | Koody | Testing Time | Pretty Core | Remote Working Guru | Based Cooking | Starting Today | Renovation Bay Bee | Anything and Everything Else | Money Making Quick

How to Enter

You can enter the Giveaway by completing as many Rafflecopter widget entry options below as you like. All entries will be collected and one winner will be randomly chosen. Good luck!

a Rafflecopter giveaway

Terms and Conditions

  • UK entries only
  • The giveaway will run from 11:45am 4th June 2023 to 11.45pm 18th June 2023.
  • The winner will be notified by email from rowena@mybalancingact.co.uk
  • The winner will have 7 days to respond after which time we reserve the right to select an alternative winner.
  • This prize draw is in no way sponsored, endorsed or administered by, or associated with, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, BlogLovin or Pinterest.
  • Prize open to over-18s only. Age verification may be required to receive some prizes.
  • If any prizes are out of stock then we will do our best to find a suitable replacement but cannot guarantee it.
  • Anyone who unfollows before the giveaway ends or doesn’t complete the required entry action will be disqualified.
  • The prize is non-transferable, non-refundable, and cannot be exchanged for monetary value.
  • We may be using a parcel service or Royal Mail for some of the prizes and their standard compensation will apply in the event of loss or damage.
  • Some items may be sent directly by the supplier and we do not have responsibility if these go missing and we cannot replace them.
  • In the unlikely event one of the companies withdraws a prize, we cannot offer an alternative.
  • The winner’s name will be stated on some or all of our bloggers’ websites and announced on Twitter and other social media channels. It will also be displayed on the Rafflecopter form. By entering this prize draw you will be deemed to give your permission for this.
  • Please note the winner may have the same name as you, so if you see your name displayed, be aware that you are not the winner unless you have been notified by us.
  • The prizes won’t arrive in time for Father’s Day and there may be some delays in receiving prizes.

Good luck, and I hope a Pounds and Sense reader wins this fabulous prize bundle!

Father's day Giveaway

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Equity Release Reasons

Why Are People Opting for Equity Release?

I have discussed equity release on various occasions on Pounds and Sense, including my article Should You Use Equity Release to Unlock the Value of Your Home?

As you probably know, equity release is a method of unlocking funds tied up in your property. It is open to homeowners aged 55 and over (60 and over in the case of home reversion plans).

In recent years equity release has become increasingly popular, and even rising interest rates have done little to dampen this trend. So today I thought I would look at the main reasons people are opting for equity release. I am indebted to my colleagues from Equity Release Supermarket for providing information (based on their internal data) on the top reasons people are releasing equity, as well as which reasons are seeing the biggest increases.

The table below shows the top reasons people have been using equity release over the last six months.

Rank Reason for equity release
1 Repay mortgage
2 Home improvements
3 Debt consolidation
4 Supplement income
5 New/second home purchase

 

As the table shows, repaying a mortgage is the number one reason over 55’s have released equity. The data shows that, on average, 21.1% of completed cases planned to pay off an existing mortgage with the money released.

Home improvements are the second most common reason, with an average of 17.9% of borrowers raising money for a renovation project.

Debt consolidation is the third most common reason for equity release, at a slightly lower average of 13.7%. Interestingly, when looking at the data by month, using equity release for debt consolidation peaked at 18% in December 2022.

The data also reveals which reasons for equity release have increased in popularity over the last six months, with home improvements seeing the biggest increase, growing by 7.7%.

Gifting money is becoming an increasingly popular reason to release equity too. In the last four months alone, gifting money that has been released through an equity release scheme has risen by 2%.

Mark Gregory, CEO and Founder of Equity Release Supermarket, has commented on the data:

“Equity release is available for homeowners over the age of 55 who wish to free up some of the money, tax-free, that has been built up in the equity of their home. The interest rate is fixed for life and the plan is repaid when the homeowner dies or moves into long term care.

“It is perhaps unsurprising that repaying a mortgage is the top reason for equity release. As interest rates and living costs continue to rise, borrowers will be looking for ways to reduce their monthly payments. By using an equity release scheme, such as a lifetime mortgage, to pay off your existing interest only mortgage you will no longer need to make monthly payments unless desired. This can help make monthly savings and alleviate financial pressures, especially for those who have seen their mortgage payments rise in recent months due to interest rates.

“It is interesting to see that gifting money through equity release has risen over the last six months. Money gifted through equity release becomes exempt from inheritance tax, provided that the gift giver lives for seven years afterwards. Inheritance tax can significantly reduce the amount of wealth that you may be able to pass on, so we often find that many people turn to equity release as a strategy for reducing the impact it will have on an estate.

“In this uncertain economic climate, it is more important than ever that borrowers are getting advice on what product options are available across the whole equity release market. For anyone considering equity release, we would suggest discussing your plans with one of our equity release advisers.”

My Thoughts

If you’re looking for a way to release money from your property – whether to pay off debts/mortgages, fund specific purchases, assist children or other family members, or just make later life more comfortable – equity release is certainly something you may want to consider. 

The main downside is – of course – that ultimately there will be less money to pass on to your beneficiaries. All reputable providers, however, offer a no-negative-equity guarantee. They may also be able to arrange plans where a certain amount of cash is guaranteed to remain in your estate, if you so wish.

Equity release interest rates in most cases are fixed for life, so you will know from the start the liability you are taking on. Of course, the longer you remain living in your home, the larger the debt eventually payable from your estate will be. 

If you think equity release may be right for you, you will need to discuss this fully with an independent adviser before proceeding. As well as Equity Release Supermarket other well-known firms in this field include Key Equity Release and Age Partnership. The Equity Release Council has a full list of members on its website.

The adviser will discuss your needs and circumstances, and – assuming they think equity release is right for you – make a recommendation from the range of products on the market. You can, of course, speak to two or more different advisers if you wish before making any final decision.

Thank you again to my colleagues at Equity Release Supermarket for their assistance with this post. As always, if you have any comments or questions, please do leave them below as usual.

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Aberdovey

My Short Break in Aberdovey

I recently returned from a three-day break in Aberdovey (Aberdyfi in Welsh). This is a small town on the mid-Wales coast. It was the first time I’d been to Aberdovey, though I’d heard good reports about it from friends.

I stayed in a two-bedroom apartment with a wonderful view across the estuary. I booked through Airbnb. I’ll say a bit more about the apartment below.

I should mention that although I travelled (and stayed) on my own, I met up with an old friend from Birmingham there. David recently lost his wife, for whom he had been caring for several years, so I thought he might appreciate a bit of company on his first solo trip away (I enjoyed his company as well, of course). David stayed at a pub/hotel called the Penhelig Arms. He liked it there, though car parking could be a bit of an issue. It appears their car park has been turned into a beer garden!

Aberdovey is about five miles south of Tywyn and 10 miles north of the university town of Aberystwyth. Here is a map of the area from Google Maps…

Accommodation

As mentioned, I stayed at an Airbnb property in Aberdovey. Under Airbnb’s rules I’m not supposed to reveal exactly where it was, but the location was certainly convenient. It was opposite the main car park, beyond which was the sea. The beach was around two minutes’ walk away, and all the restaurants, cafes and shops were within easy walking distance (not that there are very many – Aberdovey is only a small place).

You can read more about where I stayed on this page of the Airbnb website (you can also read my post about booking a holiday with Airbnb here). The apartment had a good-sized master bedroom with a comfortable double bed, and a smaller second bedroom with twin bunk beds. The latter would have been okay for children but adults might find it a bit of a squeeze.

The apartment had a decent-sized bathroom with (unusually these days in my experience) a bath with a shower over it. The shower worked well and there was plenty of hot water. I did try having a bath on my last night and found the taps very stiff, though. Possibly they don’t get used very much! I reported this to the host as I thought she would want to know, but it was no big deal, obviously.

The living room had a stunning view across the estuary (see photo below). It was quite spacious and had a good quality flat-screen TV (though no DVD player). The kitchen area just off the living room had all the facilities you would need/expect, including a toaster, fridge, sink, cooker, dishwasher, and so forth.

Aberdovey

The apartment had gas central heating. As it was April I definitely appreciated this in the evenings and early mornings. There was a main thermostat in the living room and all the radiators also had thermostatic valves.

The apartment had free wifi which worked perfectly during my stay (not always the case in my experience). Although central, the location was quiet and peaceful, and I slept very well.

Finally I should say that communication from my Airbnb host (Irene) was excellent. She sent me very detailed instructions about how to get there, where to park, local amenities, and so on. One big plus was that residents in the apartment can use a council parking permit which allows them to park in the car park opposite (and various other places in Abverdovey) free of charge at any time. I left my car in the car park opposite, which was perfect for me.

Financials

As Pounds and Sense is primarily a money blog, I should say a few words about this.

I paid a total of £480 for my three-night stay. This was made up as follows:

  • £150 x 3 nights = £450
  • Cleaning fee £30

I was charged an initial deposit of £225, with the balance of £255 taken from my card a fortnight before my visit. The total price worked out to £160 a day. Obviously that’s not cheap but I thought it was reasonable bearing in mind the high standard of the accommodation and the convenience of the location.

Things to Do

As mentioned earlier, on this break I met up with an old friend, David. We spent some of the time together and some separately, which worked out well.

On our first full day we went on the Talyllyn Railway together (see photo below). This is a heritage steam railway that runs inland from the town of Tywyn, a short drive up the coast road from Aberdovey. I last went on the Talyllyn Railway five years ago (as described in this blog post) and was very happy to do so again.

Talyllyn Railway Tywyn Wharf Station

We bought all-day tickets for £25 each and went all the way up the line and back in the morning. We then had lunch (tomato soup and a bread roll, both very good) at the station cafe in Tywyn. After that we travelled part of the way down the line to Dolgoch. Here we disembarked and spent an hour exploring the picturesque woodland with its many streams and waterfalls (see photo below). We then caught the last train back to Tywyn.

Dolgoch

On our second full day we did our own thing. I stayed in Aberdovey, had a good wander round and got to know the place a bit better. I particular recommend the Medina Coffee House (picture below), where I went for both morning coffee and afternoon tea. You can sit inside or out here and enjoy a range of drinks, meals and snacks.

Medina Coffee House

David went to Machynlleth, about 15 minutes drive away. Among other things, he visited the Centre for Alternative Technology (CAT). As a retired builder he was very interested to see some of the innovative building techniques being demonstrated here and said he would like to have stayed longer.

I met up with David each evening for a main meal. On two nights we went to the Penhelig Arms where he was staying. They serve traditional pub food, but none the worse for that. Their prices were very reasonable, and David got a 20 percent discount as a hotel resident, which was a nice touch (they also extended the discount to my meals, which was kind of them).

On the other evening we bought fish, chips and mushy peas from Aberdovey’s only chip ship (photo below). This was a stone’s throw from my apartment. We took it back to the apartment and sat watching the sun set over the sea while enjoying our meals. The food, the view and the company were all excellent!

Chip shop

Final Thoughts

As you may gather, I enjoyed my short break in Aberdovey, and am happy to recommend both the town and the accommodation where I stayed for a short break.

Aberdovey is a lovely place to relax and chill out. With its beautiful beach it could also be a good destination for families with young children. Older children and teenagers might find the lack of other entertainments a bit limiting, however. Although it’s not my thing, there are various water sports you can do there, including sailing, canoeing, sailboarding and paddle-boarding. There are also some lovely walks (and cycle rides) from the town.

In addition, the proximity of the Talyllyn Railway, Machynlleth and Aberystwyth offers good opportunities for days out. Aberdovey definitely isn’t a place you would go for the nightlife, though – even the fish-and-chip shop closes at 8 pm!

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Where to Turn for Tax Advice

Two Places You Really Shouldn’t Turn for Tax Advice (and One You Definitely Should)

Today I thought I’d set out my views on where best to seek advice on tax-related matters. From feedback received I know that this is a topic that concerns a lot of people, especially the growing number who are turning to ‘side hustles’ to help make ends meet.

I’ve been self-employed for around 30 years now and have quite strong opinions on this subject, especially as I see a lot of dodgy advice about tax being bandied about. So let me start by setting out the two places that in my view you shouldn’t generally turn for tax advice (and you definitely shouldn’t rely on).

1. Social Media

I am thinking especially here about Facebook groups and online forums (or messageboards). These are popular places for people with a shared interest to ask (and answer) questions about subjects that concern them.

I belong to various groups and forums aimed at UK writers and bloggers, and get a lot of useful information and support from them. However, I regularly see people asking questions on them about tax matters, and I’m not at all convinced that this is useful or sensible.

What typically happens in these cases is that other members weigh in with their advice and opinions. Although these are offered with the best of intentions, they are often contradictory and sometimes downright wrong. I imagine that in many cases the original questioner ends up more confused than when they started. Or – perhaps worse – they proceed on the basis of dubious advice which could result in them facing fines and penalties or, conversely, paying more tax than they need to.

Most people in these groups are not trained accountants, but that doesn’t stop some of them airily dishing out tax advice anyway. Replies beginning with phrases such as ‘I’ve always understood’ or ‘I’m pretty sure that’ or ‘As far as I know’ or ‘I could be wrong, but’ should always be regarded with considerable scepticism.

Groups also often have ‘gurus’ who claim (and may or may not have) a deeper knowledge of these matters. Their pronouncements may be treated as akin to holy writ by other members. Again, be cautious about blindly following advice from these individuals, even if they apparently have qualifications and/or professional experience. I have seen advice from such people that is definitely wrong or at least highly questionable, but nobody in the group dares challenge them about it. This happens in other fields as well as tax, incidentally.

I would also extend my caution about getting advice from social media to blogs (yes, including mine). I have seen some good advice on blogs, but also plenty I would regard as debatable to say the least. Definitely don’t take anything you read about tax on a blog as gospel, even if the person in question does have thousands of followers!

2. HMRC

Yes, you read that correctly. In my view, HMRC should seldom be your first port of call for tax advice.

There are various reasons for this. One is that, when you phone HMRC, the person you will generally speak to is a call handler. They will (or should) obviously have a reasonable working knowledge of how the tax system works, but they are definitely not expert in every aspect. If you ask them complex questions about (say) what expenses you can and can’t claim against income or what counts as a capital gain as opposed to taxable income, you are likely to get different and contradictory advice according to whom you speak to. Or they may simply tell you that advising you about this is outside their remit.

In addition, it’s important to bear in mind that HMRC are not in business for your benefit. Their job is to maximize tax revenues for the government. They can’t and won’t advise you on how to legally organise your affairs in such a way as to minimize your tax liabilities (which every taxpayer is perfectly entitled to do).

That being said, there are certain occasions when you can and should contact HMRC. This is when you have specific questions about your taxes, e.g. whether a certain tax payment has been received, what is your tax code, when is your next tax payment due, and so on. The call handlers should have this information easily accessible on their computers and will be happy to pass it on to you.

So Where Should You Turn for Tax Advice?

You may have guessed already, but if not I won’t keep you in suspense. The answer is a professional accountant.

Accountants are trained and experienced in all aspects of the tax system. They have both theoretical and practical knowledge of how the system works and how the (complex) rules are typically interpreted by HMRC. And they have to keep themselves up to date with the endless legal and procedural changes.

Also, unlike HMRC, an accountant is four-square on your side. They will advise you on the best way to organize your affairs to minimize your tax liability. They will answer any questions you may have, e.g. what records you need to keep. When the time comes, they will (if you want them to) compile your accounts and submit the relevant figures to HMRC in your tax return. And if any queries or problems arise, they will act on your behalf to try to resolve them.

A further benefit of having your accounts prepared by an accountant is that HMRC will know that a finance professional – someone who speaks their language – has compiled them. Other things being equal, this is likely to mean they will be more inclined to accept the figures and not dispute them.

Even if you prefer to prepare your own accounts (perhaps using accounting software online), having an accountant check your work (and maybe submit it on your behalf) can be a shrewd policy and reduce the risk of HMRC querying your tax return.

Even if you aren’t running any sort of business, there may still be a case for getting an accountant to help with your taxes. Many older people, for example, have multiple streams of income, from stocks and shares to ISA accounts, property rentals to pensions. Some of this income may be taxable and some not, and varying tax rates and tax-free allowances may apply. Most accountants are more than happy to provide a service to people in this situation as well.

There is, of course, one drawback to engaging an accountant, and that is the cost. This will probably amount to a few hundred pounds a year (maybe more in some cases). Not to pay this, however, is in my view a false economy. A good accountant is likely to save you at least as much in unnecessary tax as they cost you. And the reassurance (and relief) of having a finance professional available at the end of a phone when any queries with taxation arise is impossible to put a price on (but extremely valuable).

After thirty years of self-employment (and being semi-retired now), I still wouldn’t dream of not having an accountant. And since I’m mentioning this, a shout-out here for my own accountant, Rob Ollerenshaw, who has looked after my tax affairs for over twenty years. I recommend him without reservation to anyone in the North Birmingham/South Staffordshire area, or indeed further afield (he tells me he has clients as far away as Cornwall!).

So those are my thoughts about where best to get tax advice, but what do YOU think? Please post any comments or questions below as usual.

This is a revised and updated version of my original post.

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Mothers Day Giveaway and Gift Guide

Mother’s Day 2023 Gift Guide and Giveaway!

Spring is in the air, so it’s time for another great giveaway on Pounds and Sense! This one is themed around Mother’s Day, which this year is on Sunday March 19th.

I have clubbed together with some of my fellow UK bloggers to provide a bumper bundle of prizes that will amaze and delight any mum! As you will see, they range from an adult micro scooter and helmet to a bamboo underwear set, a luxury silk pillowcase and eye-mask to a ‘home spa’ face-and-body gift set. 

The total value of all the prizes is over £550. And the best news is, it’s entirely free to enter!

This giveaway has (again) been organized by Rowena Becker, who blogs at My Balancing Act. No small amount of effort has been involved in arranging and co-ordinating this event, so many thanks again to Rowena for her hard work and dedication. 

Without further ado, then, I’ll hand you over to Rowena to introduce the giveaway…

Mothers Day giveaway

And we’re back! This time to spoil your mum. Or perhaps you can win yourself some treats! We have over £550 worth of incredible prizes! This is not only a giveaway but also a great Mother’s Gift Guide to help you get ideas and inspiration for your mum or the special lady in your life this Mother’s Day.

KEEP SCROLLING DOWN TO ENTER AND FOR THE FULL LIST OF AMAZING PRIZES!

The Prizes

Adult Micro Scooter and Safety Helmet

Micro Scooters are renowned for producing the most robust scooters for all the family. From toddler ride-ons, three-wheeled wonders, 2 wheel scooters for older kids plus their multi award winning adult range, there is something for every member of the family.

Founded and run by two mums, Micro are B Corp certified. Their range of eco-scooters and accessories made from recycled bottles means more families can tread lightly on the planet.

Hopping on a two-wheeled adult scooter – whether it’s to do the school run, journey to work or for weekend family time – makes it easy and fun to get from A to B. Exploring the world on two wheels is a greener, cleaner and cheaper way to get around.

THE PRIZE

    • Any adult Micro scooter
    • Any adult Micro scooter helmet
    • Total prize value of £215

Microscooter

Cocoonzzz Silk Pillowcase and Eye Mask

At Belledorm, they understand the importance of a good night’s sleep. For over 45 years, this family-owned company has been dedicated to providing UK customers with exceptional bedlinen that helps them rest easy.

They don’t just sell bedding – they offer a solution. Sleep is the foundation of our daily lives, and the right bedding can make all the difference. That’s why they are passionate about providing soft, cozy, and luxurious sheets, pillowcases, and duvets that make you feel like you’re sleeping in a dream. From the moment you slip into bed, you’ll experience a sense of comfort and calm that carries you through the night and prepares you for the day ahead.

Here we are offering the chance to win a Cocoonzzz Silk Pillowcase and Eye Mask Bundle made from 100% pure mulberry grade A silk. Unlike cotton or linen, silk glides over your face and reduces the stretching and pulling that causes lines on the skin. Sleeping on silk has proven beauty benefits: it reduces lines and wrinkles, helps you wake with a hydrated glowing skin, and is hypo-allergenic and temperature regulating.

Treat yourself or your mum to the best!

Pillowcase

Buyagift: Treat Her Gift Voucher

Not sure what to get your mum? Look no further than Buyagift! The Treat Her Gift Voucher or Experience Box is the ideal gift, with a selection of over 2,955 afternoon teas, relaxing spa days and adrenaline adventures for her to choose from. We have one Treat Her Gift Voucher for our lucky winner.

For more gift ideas for your mum, check out Buyagift’s gift guide here: Mother’s Day Gift Guide 2023

Treat Her

Framed Best Selling Print of your choice from ink & drop

Win a framed Best Selling Print from Ink & Drop! Our lucky winner can choose a bestselling print of their choice in 50 x 70cm size.

There’s an incredible selection of unique prints to choose from in a range of different styles, from vintage antique prints, cheeky altered art paintings, pop art, dark decor, and street art graffiti prints.

Ink & Drop’s incredible posters will look amazing on any wall and best of all, the prize will arrive already framed, ready to hang straight on the wall!

Poster

Home Spa Face & Body Set With Cosmetic Bag – Mimosa & Petitgrain

Treat your mum with this gorgeous home spa face and body gift set which comes with a beautiful cosmetic bag. This gift set includes a luxurious combination of Pure Lakes Facial and Body Skincare products for an indulgent home spa experience. It includes a Face Mask, Salt Scrub and Body Butter. The Mimosa & Petitgrain blend has both a sweetness and woodiness that balance beautifully to really infuse the senses. The set includes:

    • Bentonite Clay x 25g
    • Rosehip Seed Soap Free Facial Cleanser x 30ml
    • Neroli & Geranium Flower Water Toner x 30ml
    • Mimosa & Petitgrain Salt Scrub x 80g
    • Mimosa & Petitgrain Shea Body Butter x 80m

Pure Lakes

 

Collagen Shots from Rejuvenated

Indulge mum this Mother’s Day with Rejuvenated’s multi-award-winning Collagen Shots. The brand’s multi-award-winning collagen drink contains the perfect blend of hydrolysed marine collagen (10,000 mg,) antioxidants, vitamins and hyaluronic acid to plump, smooth and hydrates the skin. The amazing formula also helps to promote healthy blood sugar levels, strengthen connective tissue, alleviate menopausal symptoms and support joint health. We have 30 servings of collagen shots for our lucky winner.

Collagen

Bamboo Underwear Set from Positive Outlook

Help all mums feel extra special this Mother’s Day with Positive Outlook. We have a gorgeous bamboo underwear set for our lucky winner. Our winner can mix and match bamboo briefs and bralettes in their desired size and colour for the perfect fit and style of their choice.

Positive Outlook’s underwear is not only extra comfortable and super stylish but also kind to the planet, making it the perfect gift for any mum who wants to secure a bright future for the planet and their children.

Underwear

Crystal Candle from Wakuda

This crystal candle was lovingly made to awaken your feminine energy and celebrate all that is beautiful within us. With the beautiful home scent of aqua blossom and coral this inner goddess crystal candle smells divine and instantly teases your senses, lifts and makes you smile.

~Snow Quartz~ This stone is known for its soft feminine energy that will align your chakras and balance your yin and yang. It is a stone that represents purity and will help you connect with and appreciate your inner goddess.

~Rose Quartz~ This is the stone of universal love and self-love. Connecting to the heart chakra, the rose quartz will promote inner healing and feelings of peace while dispelling negative energy and replacing it with loving vybz.

Inner Goddess candle

Signed Copy of Coming Home

One lucky mum can win a signed copy of Coming Home: A Guide to Being Your True Self. This gorgeous book aims to help readers break free of self-limiting beliefs and the expectations of others. It will help you rediscover your passions and become the person you really want to be. Along with Gillian’s own story, she sets out practical exercises for readers to try, Coming Home reveals how one ordinary woman turned her life around and how others can do the same.

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The Bloggers

This Gift Guide and Giveaway have been organised by My Balancing Act, a busy mum’s guide to getting the most out of your days, in collaboration with the family finance blog, Savvy Dad.

The amazing UK blogs behind this giveaway all offer fantastic content from parenting, finance and recipes to travel, days out and much more! Check their blogs out below for top tips and inspiration.

Life with Jupiter and Dann | Boxnip | The Mum Diaries | Evans Crittens | The Financial Wilderness | Working Mum Life | Anything and Everything Else | Cats Kids Chaos | Joyful Bite | Just Average Jen | Live the Easy Life | Travel Lover Blog | Gift Guides | Sister Lessons | Ask Me Up | Hannah and the Twiglets | Jenny in Neverland | We Made This Life | My Life Your Way | We Made This Vegan | Missljbeauty | Spillinglifetea | Rhian Westbury | My Money Cottage | Retro Vixen | Wotawoman Diary | Catch Up With Claire | Synderella Slims | Pounds and Sense | Things that start with | Things to do in Orlando | Florist or Flowershop | Luxury Hotels and Spa Life | Fruit Picking Farms | Restaurant Thailand | Life Loving | Kundalini Center | Georgina Caro | At Home With Alice | Best things to do in Cambridge | Two Plus Dogs | Geordie Grandma | Verily Victoria Vocalises | Victoria Welton Photography | Lisa’s Notebook | A Suffolk Mum | Sustainable Business Magazine | Kelly Allen Writer | Joanna Victoria | Rice Cakes and Raisins | Everything Enchanting | Crazy Little Thing Called Love | Twins Tantrums and Cold Coffee | The Money Making Mum

How to Enter

You can enter the Giveaway by completing as many Rafflecopter widget entry options below as you like. All entries will be collected and one winner will be randomly chosen. Good luck!

a Rafflecopter giveaway

Terms and Conditions

  • UK entries only.
  • The giveaway will run from 11:59 am on 7th March 2023 to 11.59 pm on 19th March 2023.
  • The winners will be notified by email from rowena@mybalancingact.co.uk
  • The winner will have 7 days to respond after which time we reserve the right to select an alternative winner.
  • This prize draw is in no way sponsored, endorsed or administered by, or associated with, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, BlogLovin or Pinterest.
  • Prize draw open to over 18s only. Age verification may be required to receive some prizes.
  • If any prizes are out of stock then we will do our best to find a suitable replacement but cannot guarantee it. 
  • Anyone who unfollows before the giveaway ends or doesn’t complete the required entry action will be disqualified.
  • The prize is non-transferable, non-refundable and cannot be exchanged for monetary value.
  • We may be using a parcel service or Royal Mail for some of the prizes and their standard compensation will apply in the event of loss or damage.
  • Some items may be sent directly by the supplier and we do not have responsibility if these go missing and we cannot replace them.
  • In the unlikely event one of the companies withdraws a prize we cannot offer an alternative.
  • The winner’s name will be stated on some or all of our bloggers’ websites and announced on Twitter and other social media channels. It will also be displayed on the Rafflecopter entry. By entering this prize draw you give your permission for this.
  • Please note the winner may have the same name as you, so if you see your name displayed, be aware that you are not the winner unless you have been notified by us.
  • The prizes won’t arrive in time for Mother’s Day and there may be some delays in receiving prizes.

Good luck, and I hope a Pounds and Sense reader wins this fabulous prize bundle!

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Keep in Touch with Pounds and Sense!

A quick administrative update today.

I have always had a feature on Pounds and Sense allowing readers to sign up to receive updates any time a new post is published.

It recently came to my attention, however, that these updates, which were meant to be sent automatically, have not always been going out. Although I’ve looked into this, with my admittedly limited technical skills I’ve been unable to figure out why it was happening or how to put it right.

I have therefore taken the ‘nuclear option’ and signed up with an alternative mailing list service called MailPoet. This has worked perfectly in my initial trials.

I don’t just want to import the old list of subscribers to MailPoet. I suspect many people will have forgotten they signed up for updates and I don’t want to be accused of spamming. So if you’d like to receive – or continue receiving – updates every time a new post is published (and other very occasional emails) please could I ask you to sign up to the new service? All you have to do is go to any page on Pounds and Sense and enter your email address in the box near the top right. Click on Let’s Keep in Touch and confirm when requested. Of course, you can cancel any time via the link at the bottom of every email.

I do apologize to existing subscribers that this service hasn’t been working as it should, but hopefully with the new service that will be a thing of the past now.

Finally, just a very quick reminder that you can also follow PAS on Facebook and on Twitter.

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Silver Splitters - Divorce in Later Life

Silver Splitters: How to Navigate Divorce at a Later Stage in Life

Today I am pleased to bring you an expert guest post on a subject that unfortunately affects growing numbers of middle-aged and older people.

Separation and divorce can have a massive impact on your finances, so it’s important to be prepared and take advice as appropriate. Senior divorce lawyer Natalie Lester explains…


 

It’s always sad to see a marriage come to an end but it is particularly so when a couple have been together for 30 or 40 years. Unfortunately, divorce rates for those of retirement age are on the rise and our family law and divorce team have found a significant increase in the instructions received from those aged 55 and over.

There are several likely reasons for the increase, some of which include:

  • Life expectancy. People are living longer and many couples find they have grown apart by the time they get to their sixties and their children have left home. People often have many years ahead of them after they retire, and this can cause them to re-evaluate their life.
  • Reduced stigma. Throughout the 60s, 70s and 80s, there was a negative attitude and stigma towards divorce and divorcees. Today, we see a far more accepting attitude towards divorce in a more liberal society.
  • Female equality. In contrast to a few decades ago when women were far more likely to become housewives rather than pursue their own career ambitions, married women today often earn as much or even more than their husbands. Greater financial equality provides a greater sense of freedom so women of all ages are now more confident to end a marriage that has broken down.
  • Meeting new partners. This has become easier thanks to online dating websites and because retirees are more active in retirement., there is less fear that getting divorced will result in spending the rest of one’s life single and alone.
  • Menopause. This can be a particularly challenging time for couples and both partners can feel confused and concerned as they navigate the respective changes. Inevitably, it can highlight existing struggles, further damaging the connection between couples.

Divorcing and remarrying later in life typically involves added legal complexities. To address some of these, we have set out some top tips below:

Dividing assets on divorce after a long marriage

While it is always important that divorce settlements are divided fairly and in a mutually satisfactory manner, this issue is more crucial for older couples because after a long marriage, there is often a large matrimonial pot at stake. In addition, and in contrast to their younger counterparts, silver-splitters may be reliant on their pensions with no chance of acquiring new wealth through work. After a long marriage, assets are usually split 50/50.

The family home is often one of the most valuable assets in the matrimonial pot. There are various ways in which the court may decide to deal with this asset and it is important that you obtain legal advice to consider the options available. This will usually include selling the home and dividing the proceeds, transferring the property and buying the other spouse out or if there are multiple properties, one spouse retaining the home and the other spouse retaining another property. Court proceedings are a last resort and divorcing couples should take a constructive approach and consider all alternative dispute resolutions options to reach an agreement.

Like the family home, a couple’s pension is another key asset which needs to be divided up and the courts have extensive powers to deal with pensions upon divorce. One option (and the most common) is a pension sharing order. The order will state what percentage of your spouse’s pension pot you will receive. This share will be removed from the pension and placed into a pension in your sole name (some providers allow for internal pension transfers so that you can keep your pot within the same scheme). Pensions are a difficult area and you may need a pension expert to determine the real value of a pension pot and to advise on the various options. A good divorce lawyer will be able to advise on whether this is necessary.

Preparing for unforeseen circumstances

Loss of capacity. If one of you lacks capacity, then a litigation friend may be required. A litigation friend is someone who helps a “protected person” with their legal issues. This can be a parent, guardian, a family member or friend. If that is not possible, they will need to be represented by the Official Solicitor. The Official Solicitor acts for people who, because they lack mental capacity and cannot properly manage their own affairs, are unable to represent themselves and no other suitable person or agency is able or willing to act. It is important to consider who should step in as your litigation friend should you lose capacity to provide instructions to your lawyers. Your divorce cannot proceed until you have someone (other than your lawyer) acting on your behalf.

Wills. It is important to get a holding Will whilst you are going through the divorce process. If you were to die without a Will, the intestacy rules will kick-in. This would mean that your spouse would automatically inherit some or all of your estate. This is irrespective of the fact that you may be separated. A new Will should be drawn up once the divorce is finalised.

Protecting your wealth in new relationships including re-marriage

If a new relationship is on the horizon, it is important to think about getting a living together agreement drafted which will help protect your property should the new  relationship fail.

Likewise, If remarriage is on the cards, a prenuptial agreement should be considered because a future marriage breakdown could significantly impact your financial position and any commitments you may have to children from a previous marriage. A lawyer specialising in succession planning will also be able to advise you on how to ringfence assets you may wish to pass to your children.

It is always wise to pay extra attention to tax planning after a long marriage. We encourage our clients to speak to an accountant, who can help with tax planning early on in the process.

While there is a lot to think about when getting divorced at a later stage in life, readers should remember that with the right advice, the process can be straightforward. Where possible, we always advise our clients to keep lines of communication open with their estranged spouse and to aim for a “good” divorce. By being open about your plans and finances, you are more likely to stay on amicable terms with your spouse which will benefit your wider family including any children, no matter how grown up they are! This will also help you to move the process along, not only saving time and money on legal fees, but also enabling you both to start what can be an exciting new chapter in your lives.

Natalie Lester is senior lawyer in the family law and divorce team at Debenhams Ottaway and can be reached at nl@debenhamsottaway.co.uk


 

Thank you to Natalie Lester (pictured below) for a clear and informative article about this emotive topic.

Natali

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